EPISTLE OF SEX II

FIRST EPISTLE OF MATTHEW ON SEX Chapter Two 1. Let he who has ears hear the word of wisdom from the throne of heaven 2. Sex is good, in fact it is very good because it was originated by God and all what God created were and are good 3. but abusing sex either in a pre – marital way or extra – marital way is what made it a sin 4. Have you not been taught in the holy book that the bed of marriage should be undefiled? 5. Therefore, to avoid fornication, let every man have a wife of his own and every woman a husband of her own 6. My friend Josephine Isang once said: You don’t need CONDOM, you need CONDUCT and that’s absolutely true 7. Anthony Anike paraphrased it to mean: If you are not married, you don’t need SEX, you need SENSE 8. But a dog who is destined to be lost will never yield to the call of the hunter 9. One thing I am very sure of is that the quantity of sex does not make a relationship valid. It is the quality of relationship that makes sex valid 10. Pastor Bimbo Odukoya of blessed memory said in one of her books that the more you satisfy a man with sex outside marriage or before marriage, the less his need for marriage 11. Therefore, my brethren, the most appropriate occasion to have sex for the first time is not when you are matured but when you are married 12. Do not be deceived that with BIRTH CONTROL you cannot get pregnant, the only sure way of not getting pregnant is SELF CONTROL 13. I do not write this epistle to condemn anybody but to remind us what Apostle Paul said in his first epistle to the corinthians 14. I wrote to you in my epistle not to keep company with sexually immoral people 15. Now the body is not for sexual immorality but for the lord and the lord for the body 16. Let me remind you that you are bought with a price and your bodies are members of Christ 17. Also be informed that sexual sin is a sin against your own body as it was written in 1 Corinthians 6:18 18. Sexual sin also aborts one’s destiny. Reuben, Jacob’s first child is a case study 19. Reuben’s (a man with bright future) destiny was terminated after he was cursed by his father because he slept with his father’s wife (Genesis 49: 3 – 4) 20. Ladies, using sex to get love is wrong, it only results to guilt, emotional and psychological trauma, disgrace, embarrassment, pregnancy, HIV and other STDs 21. Do not define sex as love because it is not. Anybody can sleep with you but that doesn’t mean they love you. 22. The prostitutes at the brothel are a typical example. If sex is love, prostitutes would have been the happiest people in life – Loved by many and still get paid 23. If anyone tells you to sleep with him or her as a demonstration of love, all he/she is saying is ‘I LOVE IT’ and not you 24. Any man who forces you to remove your clothes doesn’t love or respect you 25. Great people of character do the right thing not because they always want to change the world, but because they refuse to be changed by the corrupt world 26. The mighty have fallen, leaders have been destroyed, positive influencers have turned negative, destinies have been aborted, anointing have dried off, all because of five minutes enjoyment 27. I have told you times without number that sex is meant for Re – Creation (Creating new being or offspring) and not Recreation (Leisure activity) 28. Also, noble men want the desirable lady and not the available. And great men think with their mind and not their penis 29. I will keep praying for you, writing to you and reminding you about the danger of pre – marital sex as I have promised 30. Remember, this is not an epistle of condemnation. It is an epistle inspired by God to warn, remind, teach, guide, exhort and inform us about sexual purity and its advantages. 31. It won’t be long before I write to you again. I leave you with the grace of God Yours in Christ Apostle of Sexology [For Olumide Bisiriyu for giving the the opportunity to perform this on his 30th Birthday and for all october celebrants]