ABORTION: METHODS, CAUSES AND CONSEQUENCES
Abortion is an operation or other intervention to end a pregnancy by removing an embryo or fetus from the womb. It is the deliberate termination of a human pregnancy or the natural expulsion of a fetus from womb before it is able to survive independently.
Abortion is not just the killing of fetus; it is the murder of a living thing – your child.
It’s hard to believe that we actually murder Children. And why? Mostly for the convenience’s sake. We don’t want to be bothered by emotional trauma or physical discomfort or public humiliation.
Look at some children around you today. This is who you are killing when you get abortion – not things, not even masses of tissue with potential. We are talking about lives with souls.
Did you know that at about:
18 days – the mouth of the baby begin to open
24 days – arms and legs begin to take shape
42 days – fingers are forming on the hand
67 days – hair is now growing
75 days – the baby is seeing.
If a miracle like this is growing inside you, how could killing it even be an option? In his book “Sex: It’s worth waiting for”, Greg Speck says: “Do you know what I wish for? I wish people had a little window to the womb. If people could only see babies in the womb, babies that are connected to their mothers, they wouldn’t so quickly take a life away from them”.
At least 50 percent of all individuals who go into an abortion clinic never come out alive. They say it’s a safe procedure for mothers, but it’s deadly for your baby.
CAUSES OF ABORTION
1. Fear for financial difficulty to raise the child
2. Fear to what people or parents might think or say
3. Fear to the 9 months of pregnancy and to the pain during the labor
4. health problems
5. Rape
6. Hormonal contraceptives and so many more
7. Unwanted pregnancy: Let me emphasize that I don’t believe any pregnancy is unwanted for singles because if you don’t want it, you wouldn’t involve yourself in sex whether protected or not. The only means I believe, of not getting pregnant is by staying chaste.
The main problem of abortion is psychological and is fear.
Although, some of these causes might look genuine but it is never a reason why you should kill your own baby or why you should advice someone to terminate a life.
METHODS OF ABORTION
Would you like to know what your child goes through if he/she is aborted? (I didn’t use “it” because; it is meant for animals but your child is human). Here is some info, but let me first warn you that this isn’t pretty, and reading about these methods could cause some emotional trauma, especially if you or someone you know has already had an abortion. If you know you might not be able to stand the pain reading these methods of abortion could bring, I would advice you shouldn’t bother going far, you can stop at this point.
Ways to do abortion
1. SUCTION ASPIRATION: The abortionist first paralyzes the cervix (womb opening). He then inserts a hollow plastic tube with knife – like tip into the uterus. The tube is connected to a powerful with a suction force 29 times more powerful than a home vacuum cleaner. The procedure tears the baby’s body into pieces and hose the frequency jerks as pieces of the baby become lodged. The placenta is then cut from the inner wall of the uterus and the scraps are sucked out into a bottle. As the baby head can’t pass through the womb, it is introduced into the womb an instrument that compresses the little head and then takes it out.
2. DILATATION AND CURETAGE: This is similar to the suction aspiration except that the abortionist inserts a curette (a hook – shaped steel knife) into the uterus, which is used to cut the baby into pieces. The baby is then smashed and scraped from the wall of the uterus out through the cervix and discarded. As you can imagine, bleeding is usually profuse.
3. DILATATION AND EVACUATION: This method is usually performed after the third month. Instead of the hook – shaped knife usually used in D&C abortions, a pair forceps (just like the shape of pliers) is inserted into the womb to grasp part of the fetus. The teeth of the forceps twist and tear the bones of the unborn child. This process is repeated until the fetus is totally dismembered and remove. Usually the spine must be snapped and the skull crushed in order to remove them.
4. SAALINE INJECTION (SALT POISONING): This procedure is usually done after four months. Why? Because a certain amount of fluid needs to have built up in the sac around the baby. A long needle is thrust through the abdomen into the sac. The abortionist will suck out some of the fluid and then inject a salt solution. The baby will swallow this.
The child starts to jerk and kick, suffering severely because they are literally being burned alive by the solution inside the womb. If there ever ought to be a safe, protected place, it should be the womb. I wish both parents had to watch this procedure.
It will take the child more than an hour to die. If the woman has been pregnant for five months or longer, she will feel the baby fighting and kicking to live.
Usually within 24 hours, she will go into labor and deliver this tortured baby, dead, with skin burned away. But there is another problem. After all that suffering, the baby may still be born alive. Imagine wanting to live that much. The abortionist will sometimes take this poor burned baby and place it in a corner unattended to. Many times they will place a towel over the baby’s face to induce suffocation, so that the baby will die. I think in other situations we would call this murder.
5. PROSTAGLADIN ABORTION: This is a hormone that induces labor. This form of abortion uses chemicals which cause the uterus to contract intensely, pushing out the developing baby. The contractions are more violent than normal natural contractions, so the baby dies from trauma of delivery. Many, however, have also been born alive.
6. RU – 486: This is a drug that produces an abortion taken after the mother misses her period. Its effect is to block a crucial hormone that causes the uterine lining to no longer provide food, fluid, and oxygen to the baby. Without this hormone the baby can’t survive. When the abortion is complete the mother will see a tiny blob of tissue – her baby. (Note that RU – 486 is not a contraceptive because it does not prevent fertilization or implantation. It is used only after the mother missed her period and the baby is at least two to three weeks old).
I hope you see how sick and wrong is it to abort your baby. This is like a medieval torture. Notice that I do not call these people that perform abortions doctors, because doctor takes a pledge to protect life, and these people make a living by killing babies. (They are murderers).
CONSEQUENCES OF ABORTION
Physical Consequences:
1. Drugs containing RU – 486 can cause liver damage, kidney destruction, heart muscle compromise, pulmonary failure, gastrointestinal pathology, and bone marrow suppression. It has also been reported to cause loss of speech function, strokes, and convulsion.
2. An increase risk of breast, cervical, ovarian and liver cancer
3. Complications, such as uterine perforation, cervical laceration, and placenta previa can not only cause very severe problems, but they can also lead to problems in future pregnancies, such as miscarriages, premature births, fetal deaths and children born with handicaps because any problem or change with a woman’s reproductive organ may affect the development of her children.
4. Infection, including pelvic inflammatory disease, occurs in 30% of abortions; if not stopped soon enough, they can leave a woman barren.
5. Tremendous increase in the level of promiscuity and sexually transmitted diseases
6. Up to 127% risk for premature births in subsequent pregnancies; the rate is higher with multiple abortions
7. Death
Psychological consequences
1. Diminished respect for human life
2. Denial, guilt, sadness, and grieving at the death of the aborted baby that would be a woman’s natural, feminine feelings and emotions
3. Psychological reactions like alcoholism, smoking, drug abuse, sexual addictions, and self destructive behavior.
4. Post abortion syndrome: depression to suicide or attempted suicide
5. Overwhelming feelings of regret or guilt during later pregnancies
6. Flashback and nightmares
7. Destruction of trust between men and women
8. Increased rates of divorce, domestic violence and child abuse
9. feelings of guilt or regret among fathers
To read more about methods of abortion, visit www.lifesitenews.com/abortiontypes/ or www.anael.org/english/abortion/
Thanks.
I love you
@ Maximum Impact Network, we vote for Sexual Purity
Adedoyin Oluwafemi Matthew
(Visionary, Maximum Impact Network)
DEDICATION
[To every girls, ladies, women who had one time or the other commit abortion
To every ladies who are thinking of getting an abortion
To every guys who see abortion as the best option of not being a teenage father
To every abortionist who takes lives without having a rethink
To every parents who advice, suggest, support abortion for themselves or their children]
Tuesday, August 2, 2011
EVERYONE IS HURT BY ABORTION
EVERYONE IS HURT BY ABORTION
Here is a poem by a young woman who had an abortion:
The tables they turned so quickly,
I was left with no time for thought.
I’m not sure why I did it,
For regret is all it brought.
I gave in for their reasons
Because I had none for myself.
I heard the life inside me
Would be gone with nothing left.
I and the baby entered together,
Left alone once we were inside.
I asked for this last time together
Before the baby of mine would die.
I wondered if the baby could hear me
And knew this choice wasn’t really mine.
Then just as I whispered, “I’m sorry,”
I heard a knock and knew it was time.
The pain I felt had made me scream
It was more than I could take
But nothing could prepare me
For the emptiness that took its place.
Here is a poem by a young woman who had an abortion:
The tables they turned so quickly,
I was left with no time for thought.
I’m not sure why I did it,
For regret is all it brought.
I gave in for their reasons
Because I had none for myself.
I heard the life inside me
Would be gone with nothing left.
I and the baby entered together,
Left alone once we were inside.
I asked for this last time together
Before the baby of mine would die.
I wondered if the baby could hear me
And knew this choice wasn’t really mine.
Then just as I whispered, “I’m sorry,”
I heard a knock and knew it was time.
The pain I felt had made me scream
It was more than I could take
But nothing could prepare me
For the emptiness that took its place.
Wednesday, July 20, 2011
Sunday, May 29, 2011
ALCOHOL AND SEX
Alcohol is a colourless volatile flammable liquid which is the intoxicating constituent of wine, beer, spirits etc. This means that beers and wine in their own self are not alcohol but they contain alcohol.
So, what is the correlation between alcohol and sex?
There is an intimate relationship between sex and alcohol. Many people use alcohol to “loosen themselves up” in anticipation of having sex with a new partner, and it is a commonly held belief that alcohol is an aphrodisiac. i.e it stimulates sexual desire. Alcohol consumption has a number of effects on sexual intercourse and sexual behavior. The effects of alcohol are a balance between its suppressive effects on sexual physiology, which will decrease sexual activity, and its suppression of psychological inhibitions, which will increase the desire for sex.
Sexual effects of alcohol are complicated, and there are many serious negative sexual consequences of drinking too much and drinking too often.
Alcohol is a depressant. After consumption, alcohol causes the body’s systems to slow down. Often, feelings of drunkenness are associated with elation and happiness but other feelings of anger or depression can arise. Balance, judgment, and coordination are also negatively affected. One of the most significant side effects of alcohol is reduced inhibition. Reduced inhibitions can lead to an increase in sexual behavior.
What are the effects of alcohol on one’s sexual life?
1. Alcohol is a mind altering substance that makes you do things you won’t ordinarily do, with people you won’t ordinarily like to be seen with.
2. Chronic intake of alcohol makes one find it difficult to maintain a long term relationship, it causes depression and social isolation
3. Alcohol has a “dis - inhibiting” effect, which can make people “loosen up” and feel more comfortable initiating or engaging in sex.
4. Alcohol may make you feel more socially confident and in small quantities may facilitate more socializing and sexual communication.
5. At the same time, research shows that even after a few drinks sexual response is reduced.
6. In large amounts alcohol makes sex difficult to impossible. While in moderate amounts alcohol can have an impact on engaging in risky sexual behavior, although this impact is not fully understood.
7. As drinking increases both men and women will experience a reduction in sexual arousal, men may have difficulty getting erections, and both men and women may have difficulty experiencing orgasm.
8. Erectile disorders and dysfunction in men
9. Loss of sexual desire, significant decrease in sexual arousal for men and women
10. Difficulty experiencing orgasm for men and women.
Read more from this site: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alcohol_and_sex
Wine is a mocker, strong drink is raging: and whosoever is deceived thereby is not wise (Proverbs 20:1).
I love you.
@ Maximum Impact, we vote for sexual Purity
Adedoyin Oluwafemi Matthew
[For those men and women who believed that alcohol helps them perform well and to those guys and ladies who drinks at every opportunity to boost their ego]
So, what is the correlation between alcohol and sex?
There is an intimate relationship between sex and alcohol. Many people use alcohol to “loosen themselves up” in anticipation of having sex with a new partner, and it is a commonly held belief that alcohol is an aphrodisiac. i.e it stimulates sexual desire. Alcohol consumption has a number of effects on sexual intercourse and sexual behavior. The effects of alcohol are a balance between its suppressive effects on sexual physiology, which will decrease sexual activity, and its suppression of psychological inhibitions, which will increase the desire for sex.
Sexual effects of alcohol are complicated, and there are many serious negative sexual consequences of drinking too much and drinking too often.
Alcohol is a depressant. After consumption, alcohol causes the body’s systems to slow down. Often, feelings of drunkenness are associated with elation and happiness but other feelings of anger or depression can arise. Balance, judgment, and coordination are also negatively affected. One of the most significant side effects of alcohol is reduced inhibition. Reduced inhibitions can lead to an increase in sexual behavior.
What are the effects of alcohol on one’s sexual life?
1. Alcohol is a mind altering substance that makes you do things you won’t ordinarily do, with people you won’t ordinarily like to be seen with.
2. Chronic intake of alcohol makes one find it difficult to maintain a long term relationship, it causes depression and social isolation
3. Alcohol has a “dis - inhibiting” effect, which can make people “loosen up” and feel more comfortable initiating or engaging in sex.
4. Alcohol may make you feel more socially confident and in small quantities may facilitate more socializing and sexual communication.
5. At the same time, research shows that even after a few drinks sexual response is reduced.
6. In large amounts alcohol makes sex difficult to impossible. While in moderate amounts alcohol can have an impact on engaging in risky sexual behavior, although this impact is not fully understood.
7. As drinking increases both men and women will experience a reduction in sexual arousal, men may have difficulty getting erections, and both men and women may have difficulty experiencing orgasm.
8. Erectile disorders and dysfunction in men
9. Loss of sexual desire, significant decrease in sexual arousal for men and women
10. Difficulty experiencing orgasm for men and women.
Read more from this site: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alcohol_and_sex
Wine is a mocker, strong drink is raging: and whosoever is deceived thereby is not wise (Proverbs 20:1).
I love you.
@ Maximum Impact, we vote for sexual Purity
Adedoyin Oluwafemi Matthew
[For those men and women who believed that alcohol helps them perform well and to those guys and ladies who drinks at every opportunity to boost their ego]
Saturday, May 14, 2011
SAFE SEX - II
SAFE SEX (Part II)
First of all, I will like us to see the meaning of the word “SAFE” as defined by different dictionaries:
Webster’s Dictionary
Free from harm
Free from injury
Free from risk or danger
Oxford Concise English Dictionary
Protected from or not exposed to danger or risk; not likely to be harmed or lost
Not causing or leading to harm or injury
Uninjured; with no harm done
Encarta Dictionaries
Not dangerous
Unharmed or undamaged
Unlikely to cause trouble
When safe is put together with sex, the message is you can engage in sex that is free from harm, sex that is free from injury, sex that is free from risk or danger, sex that is unlikely to cause trouble. And the only sex that can guarantee that is ABSTINENCE.
When asked about the best way to prevent pregnancy and STDs, most people will say condoms. But have you ever read a condom package? The manufacturers won’t say that their product prevents anything. What you can get is “If used properly, latex condoms help to reduce the risk of transmission of HIV infection (AIDS) and many other sexually transmitted diseases. Also highly effective against pregnancy. Caution: This product contains natural rubber latex which may cause allergic reactions”. I don’t have to open a dictionary to let you know that “help” means assist and “reduce” means lower. When put together, it says, “Assist in lowering”. It doesn’t sound like “prevent” which means stop.
Few days back, I shared on my facebook wall about a guy who called me he was at Maximum Impact Valentine program held on 13th February this year, where I spoke on SAFE SEX. He called and said, “I started having sex at 18 and now I’m 27, I just called to let you know that I agree with the fact that condoms are not safe; my three living kids and two aborted babies were all conceived while I was using condoms”
Then, what is safe about condoms?
It is estimated that there are 42 million people in the world living with HIV and that 3.2 million of them are under the age of 15. It is also estimated that 24.8 million people have died from complications directly related to AIDS. Although, HIV can be contracted through other means but 80% of those that are infected caught it through sex.
STDs are not something that happens to other people. They are consequences of somebody’s actions, and they can happen to you. The odds are that if you choose to do it before you get married; you may as well stop asking if you are going to get an STD and start asking which one you are to contract among the more than 25 STDs. And the truth is that STDs don’t just inconvenience you. They don’t only cost you in terms of medical bills, discomfort and embarrassment. They can kill you.
What I have observed is that highly addicted people do not think right and don’t care what happen to them and their partner whenever they are in the mood, or why would any caring person put his/her family at risk? How would you feel if one of your parents were to put your entire family at risk by committing adultery?
In her book “The Naked truth about sex”, Lakita Garth shared a told a story of two girls she met at a store. These girls work behind the counter and were talking about what kind of birth control to get – whether an IUD (Intrauterine device), a Depo – provera injection or the patch. And then she interrupted, “what happens when you get AIDS? How is the patch gonna help you?”
The truth is that the chances of getting an STD are greater than the chances of pregnancy. You can do the patch, the pill, the slot or some other form of birth control but none of them are a 100% effective in preventing pregnancy, and none of them are 100% effective in preventing STDs. The only way to guarantee that you will not get pregnant or contract an STD is abstinence.
The only true way that guarantees you won’t get pregnant and that you won’t be infected with HIV or other STDs is saving sex until marriage and that is ABSTINENCE.
I love you
Adedoyin Matthew
(For the lady that sent me a text that "What if she decide not to stay purify and for the lady who my encounter with her (though sad and regrettable) cause a positive transformation in my life)
First of all, I will like us to see the meaning of the word “SAFE” as defined by different dictionaries:
Webster’s Dictionary
Free from harm
Free from injury
Free from risk or danger
Oxford Concise English Dictionary
Protected from or not exposed to danger or risk; not likely to be harmed or lost
Not causing or leading to harm or injury
Uninjured; with no harm done
Encarta Dictionaries
Not dangerous
Unharmed or undamaged
Unlikely to cause trouble
When safe is put together with sex, the message is you can engage in sex that is free from harm, sex that is free from injury, sex that is free from risk or danger, sex that is unlikely to cause trouble. And the only sex that can guarantee that is ABSTINENCE.
When asked about the best way to prevent pregnancy and STDs, most people will say condoms. But have you ever read a condom package? The manufacturers won’t say that their product prevents anything. What you can get is “If used properly, latex condoms help to reduce the risk of transmission of HIV infection (AIDS) and many other sexually transmitted diseases. Also highly effective against pregnancy. Caution: This product contains natural rubber latex which may cause allergic reactions”. I don’t have to open a dictionary to let you know that “help” means assist and “reduce” means lower. When put together, it says, “Assist in lowering”. It doesn’t sound like “prevent” which means stop.
Few days back, I shared on my facebook wall about a guy who called me he was at Maximum Impact Valentine program held on 13th February this year, where I spoke on SAFE SEX. He called and said, “I started having sex at 18 and now I’m 27, I just called to let you know that I agree with the fact that condoms are not safe; my three living kids and two aborted babies were all conceived while I was using condoms”
Then, what is safe about condoms?
It is estimated that there are 42 million people in the world living with HIV and that 3.2 million of them are under the age of 15. It is also estimated that 24.8 million people have died from complications directly related to AIDS. Although, HIV can be contracted through other means but 80% of those that are infected caught it through sex.
STDs are not something that happens to other people. They are consequences of somebody’s actions, and they can happen to you. The odds are that if you choose to do it before you get married; you may as well stop asking if you are going to get an STD and start asking which one you are to contract among the more than 25 STDs. And the truth is that STDs don’t just inconvenience you. They don’t only cost you in terms of medical bills, discomfort and embarrassment. They can kill you.
What I have observed is that highly addicted people do not think right and don’t care what happen to them and their partner whenever they are in the mood, or why would any caring person put his/her family at risk? How would you feel if one of your parents were to put your entire family at risk by committing adultery?
In her book “The Naked truth about sex”, Lakita Garth shared a told a story of two girls she met at a store. These girls work behind the counter and were talking about what kind of birth control to get – whether an IUD (Intrauterine device), a Depo – provera injection or the patch. And then she interrupted, “what happens when you get AIDS? How is the patch gonna help you?”
The truth is that the chances of getting an STD are greater than the chances of pregnancy. You can do the patch, the pill, the slot or some other form of birth control but none of them are a 100% effective in preventing pregnancy, and none of them are 100% effective in preventing STDs. The only way to guarantee that you will not get pregnant or contract an STD is abstinence.
The only true way that guarantees you won’t get pregnant and that you won’t be infected with HIV or other STDs is saving sex until marriage and that is ABSTINENCE.
I love you
Adedoyin Matthew
(For the lady that sent me a text that "What if she decide not to stay purify and for the lady who my encounter with her (though sad and regrettable) cause a positive transformation in my life)
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